A theme that has recurred over and again this month has been the impact of what happens, when a man is excluded from the family system, whether he was excluded because of violence, addiction, absence, unfaithfulness, or simply excluded by the women for their own reasons.
The impact on the child is this:
But children need both parents - they ARE both parents, ,so the exclusion means the child has to split off part of themselves.
And that split can show up later as:
And when it happens two or three generations back it can leave the current generation confused about why they feel they may have some of the following problems
Difficulty with men - or difficulty being comfortable with being a man
Success or money sabotage
Difficulty thriving, or guilt if you do
Chronic self-criticism
Feeling like you don't belong.
When we exclude someone, a child binds to them in secret, and then these secrets pass down the generations until you get to a generation who simply do not understand what is going on.
For some reason this pattern has shown up in 3 separate groups this past week which makes me think it timely to announce: Standing in the Line of Men - and Women (see below)
STANDING IN THE LINE OF MEN: STANDING IN THE LINE OF WOMEN on 18th - 19th April
And if you can't wait or have other issues you want to put to rest, the next constellation day is Sunday 29th March
